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Getting to Ghana

First it didn’t seem like we were ever going to arrive. Our plane to Accra was pushed back from the gate only to discover that there was a mechanical problem (again!). The left wing de-icer was malfunctioning. It took about an hour for Delta to decide this plane wasn’t going to get fixed anytime soon. But they had another plane available. (This was fortunate since the next flight to Ghana was on Monday — which would make us 72 hours late). So off we loaded onto people movers and moved to another terminal and gate where a new plane a waited. With all the moving about and getting the plane ready we didn’t leave until 9pm almost 5 hours late. But we got an expedited take off ( we passed 9 planes waiting to take and took off without waiting in line). They also used extra fuel and cut an hour off the scheduled flight time. This was all good because the crew would almost be at their maximum on duty time when we landed at Accra. And if the crew was expected to max out then the flight would haveto be cancelled.

The flight once we were airborne was uneventful. I slept ( although not well ) almost the entire flight. We landed in Accra at 11:15 cleared immigration picked up our bags and then cleared customs. We then met our driver and then were on our way at 12:30

Progress so far (Hartford)

As always travel is an adventure. Our flight from Hartford to JFK is cancelled so our trip out is delayed 24 hours.

A bit of a bummer but the delay gives us time to catch our breaths and get a good nights sleep. The airline is paying for our hotel tonight — so that’s nice.

Tommorrow we will drive to JFK in the morning (not wanting to risk another flight delay)

But for now God seems to be telling us to slow down and catch our breath.

Taking off the Wedding Rings

Yesterday as part of our preparation for going to Ghana both Thomas and I took off our wedding rings. We decided to do this because we didn’t want the trip to be about us being gay. Homosexuality is not well accepted in Africa. (Many rural Ghanains dont believe that And we certainly didn’t want the village to be side tracked by questions about our wives. This trip is isn’t about that homosexuality even exists.) Now it’s a bit of a conflict because I am going to build relationships more than just bring laptops to the village. But I know I don’t want to bring the current conflict in the Anglican Communion between the US and Africa to this village. That doesn’t belong on this trip.

So off came the wedding rings. It was bittersweet. It was so exciting to get them 5 years ago and are a symbol of our love and commitment. The rings are in our safe deposit box for safekeeping. But we go forth on a adventure.